Materialistic People

 Materialistic people are actually the worst! Look do not get me wrong, I like my designer and nice things as much as the next person but the older you get the more you realise actually how much hard work goes in to these nice things. I am not going to divulge on a public platform my finances but let's just say that if I wanted to go on a mad shopping spree it could happen. However it wouldn't happen because firstly my husband is very stingy and secondly we have other things to prioritise before I start to go on my mad shopping spree.

My readers who actually take their time to read this are probably thinking oh its a house. They need to get a house well yeah it is that but also life is so damn expensive at the moment. It's like you open your eyes in the morning and it costs you. You take your first breath in the morning and it cost you. People who act like this cost of living isn't affecting them are kidding themselves and everyone around them. It is so easy to put a facade on that stuff doesn't get to you by getting all the materialistic things in the world but ultimately it is getting to everyone. 

I really hate people who will only talk or acknowledge your presence if you're driving the most fancy car or have a million pound house which is worthy in their eyes. It's like these things don't make you a person, in fact it's more interesting to see how you would be without the facade of materialist elements. 

I think that everyone aren't going to get along but you should respect each other without worrying how much they have in their bank account. Because frankly you truly don't know how much they have, a person could be dripped out in all designer and have nothing in their account. Compared to a person who may just have basic clothes on and have millions in their account. Appearances don't always necessarily deem someone's bank balance or assets value! 

When you are younger all you care about is appearances and you want the latest trends of fashion but you don't always want to acknowledge at what cost they come at. As you get older things start to take priority and other things become more important then the latest trends. People who just have an interest to communicate with you because they think you add some value to their lives aren't really people worth having around I guess. 

It's like I said in my previous blog post that you need to control your narrative and that includes the people that you add in to your life. You want to have people in your life that add value and make life more fun. Not people that you constantly have to keep impressing but that is now what the expectation is!