You think you know me....

I got the title of this blog post so easy but to write this post has been difficult. I bet you're all wondering what she going to write considering what the post title is. 

Well it's simple really. Everyone I come across always tends to have an opinion on me, my relationships especially the one with my husband. Don't get me wrong we all have opionions formed about everything but I don't think that we should pushing them on to people. 

People honestly believe that me and my husband suffer financially, that we can't afford to buy a house. That we probably don't have a very romantic relationship as we don't have kids. We put others before we put each other first. Not only just things about us as a couple but things about me. 

I think people assume that because I share a lot of things on my social pages and write this blog that I show all my cards to the person I am. I can truly say these don't even begin ton scratch the surface of how I am or the things that I have to deal with. I am a brutally honest person and there are so many things that I dont share or even write anything about. I would love to actually write how I feel about things or situations but I just know that people wouldn't really like what I have to write. As they don't like what to have to say when I say it in person. 

Anyways I am slightly digressing from what I am actually trying to write. I just think everyone seems me and think that they know everything about me. The truth is no one has ever tried to get to know the real me so if your opinion of me lets you sleep at night better then actually just talking to me that's great. But don't think that by saying things to my face is going to warrant a response that you would want or like. 

I try to stay out of lot of matters because frankly I don't want to get involved or even be bothered to talk about the topic. But if I do get involved it's because I can't stand saying things that are completely untrue. 

Moving forward I know people will have their opinions but just keep them to yourselves. And if you think that you throw your unwarranted opinions about me to me then why not actually do it to the people who do mean and horrible stuff. I think perhaps they are the ones that need to hear it more than me.